Nancilee Wydra

September 1, 2010

Feng Shui Secrets to Having People Listen to You

Filed under: Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 5:23 pm

Pyramid feng shui is a rational, scientifically based approach to how place affects the human condition.

 Ever wonder if people are focusing in on what you are saying? Or worst yet, do you notice eyes drifting away or morphing into that blank stare that indicates that your words are not penetrating into their brains?  If the answer is ever yes then reading how using feng shui principles to reduce lack of focus will help to reduce if not eliminates mental wanderings and drains focus.

 When you want others to listen to you:

 Do not sit in front of a daytime window for attention will be dissipated.  Biologically the eye is drawn to light.  Thus, try to have a light on you since the eye naturally gravitates and remains on the most lit area of a room.

  •  Place yourself facing the entrance of a room since open doors or passageways offer another biological seduction, distance.  Yes, in any space with edges (walls) the eye seeks the furthest distance. 
  • Be careful that there is nothing moving within a three foot area surrounding you.  Again the eye is geared toward paying attention to movement.

 Be sure that what you have to say includes actually or visually “doing”.  Even ideas that seem to have nothing to do with personal involvement can be conjured up with a call to action.  An example might be to vote for my candidate because…and then you can evoke a picture of going to the headquarters and getting a free bumper sticker.  Included in all the necessities of staying alive are physical actions, thus as all teachers know some of us learn best kinesthetically. 

  • Mitigate any discomfort with color.  For example if you are in a crowded space evoke white or the rejection of all colors.  In a cold space evoke warm colors to counterbalance discomfort. It could be as innocuous as mentioning that my candidate gave a speech dressed in a clean, white shirt, or did you know that my candidate has more blue ties than any other color.

 

  • If your audience is at a distance of over 40 feet be sure to wear a strong diagonal line or colors with long lengths like red or orange. A suit jacket with a cut away neckline is often all the diagonal line you need or a tie with a diagonal stripe.  Again the eye seeks diagonal lines before right angled ones.

 

So while this may not seem like rocket science, if you do these things, you will discover that people are more likely to focus on what you are saying.  And who doesn’t like to be heard?

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August 27, 2010

Blue Moon, Two Moons or Just Plain Moonshine

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 9:09 pm

 Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human behaviors.

What does it matter if there are really two moons circulating the earth tonight or just that Mars comes very close to the earth, appearing like a moon? What matters is that we all need to believe in magic even when the reality is merely a sleight of hand or trick to avert attention. My life would not be as thrilling if I were to doubt the opportunity to experience something special and when harmless, any belief in magic can unlock innumerable possibilities. Ask any child.

August 23, 2010

Why the Aged are Not Considered Sages

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 5:32 pm

Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human behaviors.

I had a phone conversation with my brilliant friend Uma who was telling me about a book called “The Sage’s Tao Te Ching: Ancient Advice for the Second Half of Life.” A discussion of this book led us to ponder why distant cultures and other eras assigned wisdom as a enhancement of getting older when today, age is considered an impediment, something to override.

What occurred to me is that in ancient times the life experience one’s grandparents was very similar to current-life styles.  Technological and cultural alterations were infrequent and changes occurred slowly like molasses pouring from a jar.  Today, they enter into the mainstream with the force of ballistics. 

Considering this how can today’s aged, who have been dealing with life in the fast but not lightening speed of change even be current, no less savvy about the new? 

I remember my successful and street-smart father giving me advice about business from his early twentieth century perspective.  He was sage in the context of his generation, but I shudder to think how a hedge fund manager would regard his perspective.  Dad’s counsel worked in the world before the Internet, before money outdistanced product in the marketplace.  His wisdom was caught in the web of time and today, his views would seem naïve, outdated, anything but sage.

In a world that is changing faster than a speeding bullet, those of us who remember when the trigger was engaged are apt to be dismissed as easily as a spent cartridge.

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August 12, 2010

The Value of Abrupt Irregularity

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 11:24 am

Patterns, those comforting iterations that we fall into like a needle in a 78 record’s groove.

Yes, they make life easy.  They automatically propel us into an action that results in predictable consequences.  We wake up stumble into the bathroom, exit and then perhaps, walk the dog, make a morning hot drink, shower, – you get the picture we are routin-ize.

So why do we wonder why we can’t change?  How can we walk down a different path when there are no alternatives?  That’s why I want you to think about abrupt irregularities.

Name a behavior you wish to alter and describe the pattern in your home environment that support unconsciously duplicating of these behaviors. Here’s one of mine and how I can change them.

If you were to visit me at home, you would find the kitchen clean, the bed made, all surfaces clean and orderly with the immense exception of my desk top.  Piled with papers in no particular order, it is a storm in a sea of calm  Normally, I would never take a visitor to that space for fear of revealing the desktop chaos. 

What abrupt irregularity can I do to change this pattern?   Since I care about how things look in the rest of my home, how about moving my desk to a public area so that it could not be hidden from view forcing me to alter its housekeeping?  This idea came to me  because this summer, I have rented a space that only has one main room that houses, the sitting, eating and my office area.  I am motivated to keep my desk tidy.

Try an abrupt irregularity in your home and let me know how that change alters behaviors you want to reverse.

August 10, 2010

To My Son “You Can’t Throw Out Your Past Like a Broken Toy

Filed under: Feng Shui,Tao — Intelligent feng shui @ 6:00 am

Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human

You can’t throw out your past like a broken toy

Even when it seems as if it is irrelevant, even detrimental

Like the two cells that expanded into the universe of you

Tossing a handful of them away doesn’t augment

It diminishes

Make peace with bruises and infractions

Like an amputated limb they never disappear

You will always be your own all

The all of your past

Always embedded in the now

And the nows of the future

Even when I am not

 

August 8, 2010

Reinventing the Wheel or Not

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 7:51 pm

Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human

The words of Edward O. Wilson, a Harvard biologist and author of “Consilience” (Knopf, 1998) are to me the most exciting evidence that reality is much larger than one imagines. He writes: “all tangible phenomena, from the birth of stars to the workings of social institution, are based on material processes that are ultimately reducible, however long and tortuous the sequences, to the laws of physics.” This suggests that the amount of mysteries in this universe are but patterns that repeat themselves over and over again, just like a woman or might make when selecting a mate for the umpteenth time. We tend to repeat ourselves and so does everything in the universe it seems. That the same pattern that forms cancer is the same pattern that is inherent in the structure that harbingers the downfall of a society. That the righting of wrongs is the same pattern that is inherent in healing. This coupled with the knowledge that our brain is used mostly (80%) to communicate intra brain and body and that we literally speak to ourselves more than we speak to those around us or within our own mind is the foundation upon which I have structured my ideas about healing. Whatever your personal choice for affecting healing is, it must be completely tried and trusted for then it will match the archetype pattern that champions your healing. What kind of healer are you? Do you choose to ignore and “muscle through” an illness or are you careful to follow every directive given to you by a trusted medical person? Whatever your illness is, don’t reinvent your wheel. What has worked for you in the past will work again and what has not won’t. Sometimes, it takes a completely different approach to augment positive results. For example, if I say I will be careful and watch my diet to loose weight, I can tell you right here and now that I won’t loose an ounce. The only affective dieting for me has been to be on a very ordered, structured regiment, exactly the opposite of what I want to do. Of course, there are the dieters that constantly fail on an ordered, structured regiment. Thus, the first step to healing is finding out what pattern has in the past worked for you and then repeat it. Some wheels don’t need reinventing and some do. Only you know which they are. 

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August 4, 2010

All You Need is Love

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 8:26 pm

Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on humans
Again Chautauqua Institute continues to deepen my understanding of what humans need to thrive.  It was not an esteemed speaker at the Institute, but my dear friend Merle Citron, teacher of the year in Ewing Township public schools 1991 and 1999, who told me about the orphans of Iowa.   We were talking about how important early childhood experiences are to formulating the rest of a person’s life when she told me about two psychologists, H.H. Skeels and H. B Dye, who, during the 1930’s, tested their radical hypothesis about thriving and nurturing.  They transferred 13 out of 25 of the most seriously retarded infants to Glenwood State School, an institution for adult mentally retarded patients who ranged in age between 18-50 and had a mental age range of 5-12 years old.   Each of the 13 infants, who averaged 19 months old, was assigned to a retarded woman who then had to take care of her infant in every way. Under supervision they changed diapers, fed, hugged and talked to their charge, just like a mother would do.  The other 12 infants of the group of 25 remained at an orphanage which was considered a good one with a highly trained staff (Henslen, 1995).    It was assumed that the slightly higher intelligence of the 12 retarded infants who remained at the orphanage would be considerable higher than the 13 infants with lower scores who were cared for by a retarded person.      
 

Two and a half years later Skeels and Dye tested the intelligence of the 13 orphans raised by the retarded women against the intelligence of the dozen infants left back at the orphanage as a control group.  The results were astounding. The IQs of the infants who had been cared for by mentally retarded women had risen a whopping twenty-eight points while the IQs of the control group at the orphanage had dropped thirty points!  The scientists had made an incredible discovery! Being cared for, cuddled and loved is more important than anything else for intellectual development.  Merle tells me that follow up studies on these children showed that most married, some went on to receive a college education, and all lived a normal, happy life.

Yes, George, Ringo, John, and Paul…all you need is love.

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July 30, 2010

We Were Born Digital!

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 5:45 pm

Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human

Life used to be so simple.  There was a beginning, middle and end to mostly everything. Like reading a book, we were born into an experiential world where things start at a beginning point, proceed through a middle and conclude to an end.  What is so interesting about this method of constructing reality is that it is artificial.

Consider just the physical part of experience.  Your eyes are at work from the moment you wake, taking in tons of information about the world around you — shapes, colors, movements, and more. Very simplistically, the eye then sends a tremendous amount of information to the brain and the brain sorts it, tossing out most of it and making you aware of only a small snippet of the information your eye inputted.   Physical, emotional, and cultural factors shape what you become conscious of.  Now does that sound like a rational, predictable sequence making what is out there simply a matter of looking?  I don’t think so. 

Fred Ritchin professor of photography and imaging at New York University’s Tisch School of the Arts and director of PixelPress recently lectured at Chautauqua Institute during a week-long conversation about photography.  One of the fascinating things he suggested is that digital experiences actually function more like our brain than the artificial reality we have created for our experiential world.  Replying to the argument that Google is making us stupid, Ritchin argues that Google has the potential to make us more intelligent and thoughtful, in part, because its foray into information can be more aligned with the way we process thoughts. 

Neuroscientist Vilayanur Ramachandran suggested in a recent lecture on TED.com that about the 100 billion neurons in the adult human brain reach and grab for information, sort of like you do when you reach for an apple or a pear in a bowl of fruit.  The way our neurons are fired is compatible with the way we can search for information on Google, making the digital age more likely to help humans actualize to their full potential.

In some ways it reminds me of how women’s fashions of the 1950’s, with their constraining undergarments, didn’t allow us to move naturally.   When bras were burned along with girdles, garters and chinch belts, human movement also became liberated and forms of dance were unleashed that heretofore had been constrained by fashion.

So dive into learning with many choices at your side.  Don’t belittle yourself if you find one thought  leads you away from the author’s diatribe and onto an entirely different network of data. Just remember that you are learning in the same way as your brain spits out thoughts.

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July 26, 2010

More News No One Wants You to Know!

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 2:00 pm

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Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human

Sorry for the digressions, but Chautauqua Institute is the most informative place I know of. Speakers with pristine credentials come here to inform and enter into a conversation that leads to rational decision making. Dr. Deborah C. Peel, considered one of the most powerful persons in the medical field today, gave a speech on patient privacy rights, which apparently there isn’t much of. The privacy paper you sign in the doctor office gives the right to disperse your medical information away. The HIPAA amended law of 2002 reads, “ to use and disclose protected health information for treatment, payment, healthcare operations.” What does this mean you ask? Well, look at the chart at the beginning of this blog and know that every entity listed, has the right to know what drugs you are taking, what syndrome you might be suffering from, if you HIV, or any sexually transmitted disease or any tests that may have been ordered or pronouncement any of your doctors might make.

My personal favorite institution that has a right to your medical information is banks. Yup, where you safeguard your money can have access to know if you take heart burn medicine, are diabetic or are on an antidepressant? What can you do? Well first of all, go to www.patientprivacyrights.org and print out an alternative paper to the one you are handed when you visit a doctor. Secondly, sign up to receive their up to date legislation and by all means download, buy a CD or DVD or Dr. Peel’s lecture that she gave at Chautauqua Institute, July 24,2010.

July 23, 2010

Master of the Nuclear Universe Reveals True Adgenda

Filed under: Elements,Feng Shui,Physical Sciences,Science,Social Sciences,Tao,Yin/Yang — Intelligent feng shui @ 5:46 am

 Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human I interrupt the topic of this summer’s blog to discuss with you a lecture I heard this weeke Chautauqua Institute.

James Rogers, chairman and CEO of Duke Energy – one of the largest electric power companies in the United States, gave a lecture promoting nuclear energy as the future’s “clean” and cheap power source. While he kept using the word clean in conjunction with nuclear power. What he meant was that nuclear does not spew carbon emissions into the atmosphere, but does leave spent fuel rods of radioactive uranium and plutonium for us to deal with. Yes, the French recycle the rods, but most still goes into deep graves. What is still not completely solved is how to reprocess these highly radioactive spent fuel rods that up to now have been disposed of underground.

 As Healthy Environment of Utah or Heal writes: “The Reprocessing is simply a process to repackage nuclear waste–not eliminate it. The idea is to reuse some of the energy in a fuel rod after it has gone through its first life cycle. Once the uranium-filled fuel rods that create the nuclear power plant’s nuclear reaction are “spent,” they are cooled for a few years at the reactor site and are then transported to a reprocessing plant. At the reprocessing facility the fuel rods are cut up and dissolved in a bath of nitric acid. Uranium and plutonium are then separated out from the other highly radioactive wastes in the nitric acid solution. The remaining solution, which is still high-level waste, is typically blended with glass, a process known as vitrification, and must ultimately be stored in a deep geologic repository, like the one proposed at Yucca Mountain. In theory, the extracted uranium, which comprises 95% of the volume of the spent fuel rods, could be re-fabricated into nuclear fuel rods. However, in practice, no significant amount of this reprocessed uranium is reused in countries that currently reprocess, including France and Britain. This is because the extracted uranium is contaminated with highly radioactive and hazardous fission products. The process of turning this contaminated uranium into nuclear fuel rods is prohibitively dangerous for workers and would be extremely expensive. The result is that most of the radioactive materials from spent fuel rods are not reused, and must still go into a deep geologic repository. The United States’ only foray into reprocessing commercial nuclear waste was an environmental and economic disaster. Between 1966 and 1972, the West Valley reprocessing facility, located in New York State, reprocessed only one-sixth of the spent fuel slated for processing while creating radioactive waste that is threatening eventual leakage into Lake Erie. Thirty-three years after the facility’s closure, taxpayers are still footing the $5.2 billion remediation tab. “ What was so telling in this morning lecture was how Mr. Roger’s answered a question from the audience revealing his true agenda. He was asked why do nuclear power plants have to be so ugly and he answered it by saying, and I paraphrase, well it looks beautiful to me. It’s the look of cash flow and that is my favorite kind of green. Let us not find ourselves in the same position in the future, as we are now, finding that after 100 years of using gas to power cars, we realize that we are choking our planet to death with air born toxins. July 25 2010Master of Nuclear Power’s Universe, Reveals his True Agenda Pyramid feng shui is a rational scientifically based way of understanding how place impacts on human I interrupt the topic of this summer’s blog to discuss with you a lecture I heard this weeke Chautauqua Institute. James Rogers, chairman and CEO of Duke Energy – one of the largest electric power companies in the United States, gave a lecture promoting nuclear energy as the future’s “clean” and cheap power source. While he kept using the word clean in conjunction with nuclear power, what he meant was that nuclear does not spew carbon emissions into the atmosphere, but it does leave spent fuel rods of radioactive uranium and plutonium for us to deal with. Yes, the French recycle the rods, but most still goes into deep graves. What is still not completely solved is how to reprocess these highly radioactive spent fuel rods that up to now have been disposed of underground. As Healthy Environment of Utah or Heal writes: “The Reprocessing is simply a process to repackage nuclear waste–not eliminate it. The idea is to reuse some of the energy in a fuel rod after it has gone through its first life cycle. Once the uranium-filled fuel rods that create the nuclear power plant’s nuclear reaction are “spent,” they are cooled for a few years at the reactor site and are then transported to a reprocessing plant. At the reprocessing facility the fuel rods are cut up and dissolved in a bath of nitric acid. Uranium and plutonium are then separated out from the other highly radioactive wastes in the nitric acid solution. The remaining solution, which is still high-level waste, is typically blended with glass, a process known as vitrification, and must ultimately be stored in a deep geologic repository, like the one proposed at Yucca Mountain. In theory, the extracted uranium, which comprises 95% of the volume of the spent fuel rods, could be re-fabricated into nuclear fuel rods. However, in practice, no significant amount of this reprocessed uranium is reused in countries that currently reprocess, including France and Britain. This is because the extracted uranium is contaminated with highly radioactive and hazardous fission products. The process of turning this contaminated uranium into nuclear fuel rods is prohibitively dangerous for workers and would be extremely expensive. The result is that most of the radioactive materials from spent fuel rods are not reused, and must still go into a deep geologic repository. The United States’ only foray into reprocessing commercial nuclear waste was an environmental and economic disaster. Between 1966 and 1972, the West Valley reprocessing facility, located in New York State, reprocessed only one-sixth of the spent fuel slated for processing while creating radioactive waste that is threatening eventual leakage into Lake Erie. Thirty-three years after the facility’s closure, taxpayers are still footing the $5.2 billion remediation tab. “ What was so telling in this morning lecture was how Mr. Roger’s answered a question from the audience revealing his true agenda. He was asked why do nuclear power plants have to be so ugly and he answered it by saying, and I paraphrase, well it looks beautiful to me. It’s the look of cash flow and that is my favorite kind of green. Let us not find ourselves in the same position in the future, as we are now, finding that after 100 years of using gas to power cars, we realize that we are choking our planet to death with air born toxins and now destroy the soil underneath the earth’s crust.

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